Nothing is written in stone. And if it is, jackhammer the shit out of it, turn it into pixie dust and blow it into the wind.
Exploration. Do it. Lots of it.
You don’t always know exactly what you want or exactly what you like until you explore, experiment, and test things out.
You may start out super excited about a project, hopeful that it’s going to be a certain way but shortly come to realize “Oh, just kidding. This is totally not for me. This is not even close to what I thought it was going to be.”
You might make a decision only to realize it wasn’t the best.
And that’s totally okay! Exploration is a huge part of our life experience.
And guess what? Discovering that something isn’t quite what you had hoped or imagined it to be doesn’t mean game over. It doesn’t have to mean you’re stuck. It doesn’t even have to be seen as a mistake, but rather an experience that allowed you to gather more information on what you want and don’t want – what you like and don’t like.
News: At any point in time you can always make a new, different choice.
It might involve going backwards.
Changing course completely.
Like a GPS that re-routes every time you take the wrong turn, you too, can recalculate your direction to find your way towards your destination.
Hate that job you said yes to? Fuck it, find a new one.
Is that person you’ve been feening for showing no genuine interest? Adios mi amor. Moving on!
Is that environment not the best for you? Relocate.
Tired of that same old hair style? Change it up!
Looking to save 15% or more on car insurance? Switch to…. lol JK! Not promoting anything here – just being silly.
Point is, my amigos, that at any point in your life you can decide to re-route. You can say “This is no longer working for me and I am making a change.”
You don’t have to be stuck where you’re at -there is a way out.
Change is possible! Totally possible.
Don’t beat yourself up when you realize that the grass you went chasing after was not only not greener but it was actually that rough, fake, synthetic shit. Is that a double positive? fake, synthetic? (Whatever).
Just tell yourself that you’re an explorer. That you’re here to learn. That you can unsubscribe to what you’ve signed up for – and that’s totally okay!
You’re living and learning. You’re a beautiful exploring soul and at any point in time you have every right to just take a different turn, recalculate what’s no longer working, and move in a new direction.
You’re the driver of your life. It’s okay to make the wrong turn and it’s also okay to re-direct your path.
You are not stuck.