I’ve been meaning to tell you about the shelter.
It’s where I work now. Among 134 homeless people.
I work on the women’s floor. My office sits by the middle-front of the unit surrounded by 54 beds separated by shared cubicles where the women rest their heads every night next to the little property they have.
This job is teaching me about gratitude. Resilience. It’s awakening me to make smarter choices in finances, health, family. It’s teaching me what NOT to do.
I am seeing how blessed I’ve been, despite my hardships.
I fight back and fourth in my head about this “blessed” mentality, though. Because some people are fully responsible for where they find themselves. Sometimes it’s not a matter of being “blessed” or not but a matter of taking control of your life, making healthy choices and not fucking up.
But there are times when people are just struck by sudden misfortune or they’re dealt challenging cards right from birth. Yeah, I give those people a pass — but not forever. The tools, resources and help is out there if you take it, apply it, and make the best of your situation.
Reflecting on this topic makes me want to talk about death.
I’ve been meaning to write on this subject FOR A VERY LONG TIME NOW.
Contrary to popular opinion, I am a HUGE advocate of euthanasia.
Not only for elderly people who are suffering with no chance of recovery, but for ANYONE who does not wish to live.
I think people should have the full right to life but also a full right to death.
Why shouldn’t I have a right to my death? It’s MY life – so why do I not have the right to say at what point I want it to end , especially if it’s going to end one day anyway? Shouldn’t I get a say of exactly when if I so wanted to? My vote is yes.
I’m totally digressing from my original topic – the shelter – and am opening a whole other can of worms here. I know.
But part of the reason I am connecting the two is because of the suffering I see.
I don’t know what happens after death, no one does for certain, I don’t think.
BUT if we knew that death is in fact a “get out of suffering card” why shouldn’t it be an option for people?
Why should people continue to live in suffering when they can be at peace through death if that is what they truly wish?
I believe in assisted suicide.
I believe that people should be granted a funeral at their time and date of choosing.
I believe it could be a beautiful and peaceful ceremony where the dying person can choose to pass away into peace rather than remain alive in suffering just waiting to get hit by a truck or slowly die of cancer or even violently kill themselves.
I know this is a strong statement. And not a lot of people will agree.
But I am sticking to it.
I am speaking for those who are suffering and in pain and who would rather rest in peace than live in suffering.
This is what they say:
“I am hurting. I don’t want to live in suffering. I don’t want to be here at all. I just want peace and rest. It’s my life. I have the right to say what happens to it. And I choose to opt out of this suffering I am in. If death truly is the cure to this suffering, please let me have it.”
I’ll probably talk more about this in a future time, but for now – these are my reflections on the matter.